... the answer to the question 'Are you mad?' is 'Yes' but it's just not worth the fight.
... the answer to the question 'Are you ok?' is 'No.', but I don't have the words to explain it.
... I just want to sit and stew in my anger for a bit before I get over it.
... I KNOW that I'm overreacting, and I don't really care.
... there will have to be an apology made and I'm trying to figure out how to say it.
... I just need to process everything before I can have a conversation about it.
... I'm just so damned mad at you that I don't *dare* speak for fear I'll say something I can't take back.
... I just want you to 'get it' without me drawing you a map.
... I don't want to play the games we play.
... I know that I have a bad attitude and I just need some time to fix it.
... I feel like I'm doing this alone.
... you surprise me and say the most wonderful things.
... I just don't have the energy.
... I just want to fight.
... I need a break. Or a nap. Or maybe a nap AND a break.
... I'm jealous of you.
... I go upstairs and smell your robe when you're at work, because I miss you.
All the time, I love you.
- heidi
- Montana, United States
- I'm a wife and mom of 5. I work part time from my home while I babysit various neighborhood kids in addition to all the full time duties of staying at home. Yay me. Where's my medal?
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19 comments:
Those are probably the most normal and healthy things that you say or think or feel in a marriage.
Those sound totally normal to me...all thoughts that I have had before....good you got it out!!!! =)
Girl, you need to write greeting cards. LOL
That was GOOD!
LORI
that was PERFECT!!! my sentiments...EXACTLY!!
thanks for reminding us that all of that is "normal"
beautifully written. and a good reminder.
I totally agree...
That was normal. There's this silly country song that says that. I just want to be mad for a while. I totally get it.
Sounds like normal life, not that silly Hollywood mush and garbage! Have a great day!
oh, the joys of marriage. :)
communication is the number one reason marriages are successful.
So keep talking.
Wow. I love this! Can I steal it?
Perfect!
Sometimes...you just hit the nail on the head with your writing.
very nice. good therapy to write it down!
Wow, how come you took the words out of my mouth???
I couldn't have said it better myself!
Send me the available Fridays in May so I can get hooked up, please.
Very interesting seeing it from the other side...very well written.
----Lane
I can relate to this....its not always nice, but you can come back to the point where love is the common denominator.
Just lurking around and loved this post.
I've been trying to pin that down for....well, a long time. I keep wondering, wanting to ask if there are others out there like me.
Thank You.
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